There is not a 'Yes' or 'No' in Chinese
March 26, 2019

There Is Not a "Yes" or "No" in Chinese
(Sorry to HK-ers, I have used simplified Chinese - but prefer tradtional).
We often assume that the simplest piece of communication is a straightforward yes/no. But in reality—and especially in Chinese—the world can be more nuanced. Unlike English, Chinese has no direct word for “yes” or “no.” Instead, it relies on context, repeated verbs, or expressions like “对不对 (duì bu duì)” and “真的 (zhēn de).” These alternatives might look like a minor language quirk, but they highlight a deeper truth: life doesn’t always fit neatly into “yes” or “no.”
No Single Word for “Yes” or “No”
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Verb Repetition
- 你吃了吗? (Have you eaten?)
- 吃了 (Chī le, “Have eaten”) or 没吃 (Méi chī, “Haven’t eaten”).
There’s no direct “yes/no,” just a statement of the situation: “I have” or “I haven’t.”
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Verb + Negation
- 你能来吗?(Can you come?)
- 能来 (Néng lái, “[I] can come”) or 不能来 (Bù néng lái, “[I] cannot come”).
Again, answering the question directly, rather than a blanket yes/no.
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“对不对 (Duì bu duì?)”
- Literally “Right or not right?”
- This invites someone to confirm or deny correctness, rather than forcing a yes/no.
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“真的 (Zhēn de?)”
- Literally “Really?” or “Truly?”
- More about seeking confirmation or genuine truth: “Is it true?” or “Seriously?”
The Reality of Not Having “Yes/No”
In Chinese, you respond with the specific action or condition, not a rigid yes/no. While this might seem alien to an English speaker, it mirrors how life often resists binary labeling—sometimes we need more nuance:
- More Context: Repeating the verb tells exactly what you did or didn’t do.
- Less Snap-Judgment: Without default “yes/no” placeholders, you might be nudged to think about specifics.
It’s Not Always Black-and-White
1. Diet Fads
“Is coffee good or bad for you—yes or no?”
Reality: For some, it’s beneficial; for others, not so much. A single yes/no can’t capture all that.
2. Tech Debates
“Are smartphones making us dumber, yes or no?”
Evidence says they can erode attention and expand knowledge. A pure yes/no masks the complexity.
3. Moral Dilemmas
“Is lying always wrong?”
It depends on context—white lies to spare feelings? Major deception for personal gain? Again, nuance.
Less Polarity, More Reflection
Without built-in words for “yes” or “no,” the Chinese language approach might:
- Reduce Polarization: No simple yes/no can lead to more thorough discussion.
- Reflect Real Life: Situations are messy, rarely just yes or no.
Conclusion: Learning from “对不对” and “真的?”
We crave clarity, but the universe often denies a neat binary. Chinese highlights that phenomenon by skipping straightforward yes/no in favor of contextual confirmation or negation. Maybe this approach nudges us to be more precise, and less prone to splitting the world into black-or-white extremes.
Perhaps if we borrowed a page from this style—substituting “Really?” or “Is it right?” for “yes/no,” or detailing what exactly is correct or not—we’d find fewer trivial arguments, and more nuanced insight. Because when you think about it, life—like language—often thrives in the space between extremes.